Many people believe that intelligence is static; either you're smart or you're not.  But it turns out that intelligence is like a muscle: it can be developed with use. What's more, if you believe that's true, your brain has more potential!

Stanford researcher Carol Dweck ran an experiment with junior high schoolers. If they helped the kids to think they could develop their intelligence, would the kids' math grades improve?

In less than two hours over eight weeks, they taught the students concepts such as: Your brain is like a muscle that can be developed with exercise; just as a baby gets smarter as it learns, so can you. The results were astonishing: the brain-is-a-muscle students significantly outperformed their peers in a math assessment.

So our goal as parents is to raise kids who believe in their ability to build mental muscle.  These kids are perpetual learners -- they can learn what they need to in new situations and are always curious to learn more.

Although intelligence is often equated with scores on IQ tests, most scholars now believe that IQ tests assess only part of a person’s intelligence.  Traditional IQ tests basically measure the child's retention of verbal and logical/mathematical knowledge. Unfortunately, this limited dimension is then equated with the child's intellectual potential.

Experts also question the obsession in our culture with pushing children to read or achieve academically before kindergarten age.  Toddlers and preschoolers have other, more critical work to do, from building with blocks, to playing with rhythm and color, to learning how to get along with their peers. Even Verbal and Logical Intelligence actually begin with talking and wondering, when kids participate in thousands of everyday conversations about life.

Dr. Howard Gardner describes seven different kinds of intelligence that are important in human functioning, all of which kids need an opportunity to develop:
•    Verbal Intelligence
•    Bodily / Kinesthetic Intelligence
•    Logical/Mathematical Intelligence
•    Musical Intelligence
•    Interpersonal Intelligence
•    Intrapersonal Intelligence
•    Visual / Spatial Intelligence

My own view is that the most important kind of intelligence for a satisfying life is Emotional Intelligence, which is explored throughout this site.  

That said, I think reading and academics are of huge importance in the life of any 21st century human. The links below are designed to help you raise a child who's intellectually curious, creative, and excited about learning on every level -- for the long haul.